The Healing Power of Humor

In life and motherhood, you can never take yourself too seriously.  Alyce Chan, the stand-out stand-up comedian is here to show us how to do just that.

She founded one of the biggest parenting platforms, MOMCOMNYC, which Vogue named among the top 6 funniest parenting Instagram accounts.

In this hilarious and healing interview, Alyce shares how she continues to find inspiration and her authentic voice in comedy.

And, she teaches us how to harness our sense of humor and get out of our comfort zones. Listen to laugh!

More on Alyce

  • MOMCOMNYC information here
  • Follow Alyce's Instagram handle: @momcomnyc 

Want to see Alyce? She will be at the MOM2.0 Summit in Arizona from May 7-9th if anyone wants to learn more on how Alyce inserts humor into her daily routine.

Additionally, she is gearing up for an upcoming headlining show on May 10th in Tacoma; details here.

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“Mommy, why don’t you play anymore?”

“Mommy, why don’t you play anymore?”

Last month, @kliola was on stage describing the moment her daughter innocently asked her this question. Her words sank from my ears to my gut in less than a second.

Katherine defended all the forts and games she has orchestrated. She was met with, “No, Mommy, why don’t you really play?”

Whew. You felt that too, right?!

Pretty recently, James expressed a similar observation. He said I “make” the fun, but I don’t “have” the fun. When he said it, I laughed. That’s what moms do, and I accepted his comment as a job well done. But hearing Katherine describe her daughter’s experience hit in some kinda way. It felt different, personal.

Katherine then asked a series of questions that have been on shuffle mode in my brain since:

~What is being?
~How do we feel our being when we are living in the wake of other’s expectations?
~How do we get to being?

The first step for Katherine was having an openness to self-exploration. She got curious about herself. She said phones were an unfortunate landing place for curiosity. That resonated.

Katherine’s vulnerability and willingness to share her journey to being is inspiring mine. Maybe yours too. ~Erica

Asking for More in Motherhood

Throughout our careers, it's easy to wonder – will the view be worth the climb?

To discuss, we brought on one of the world's leading female professional rock and ice climbers Majka Burhardt. After she learned she was having twins, she had to reconsider her risky climbing career in the face of responsibility.

Based on the letters and journals Majka diligently kept over the course of six years into parenthood, her book More: Life on the Edge of Adventure and Motherhood, takes us on a incredible journey as she explores the identity-shifting experience of motherhood. Join us as we define what “more” means to us.

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Life as a Warrior Mom

JJ Virgin is living proof we have no idea of what we’re capable of. 

As a celebrity health expert, you may have seen her on Dr. Phil, TODAY, Rachael Ray, and more.

On our 50th episode (woah), she tells us about her book, Warrior Mom, which details how she courageously overcame the worst moment of her life – her son’s life threatening and tragic accident.

Her challenges revealed this truth, “Inside every mother is a fierce, resilient, intuitive woman who has the ability to tap into an indomitable mindset and create heroic outcomes—for her children, her family, her community and for herself—she is a Warrior Mom.”

Tune in to hear her powerful story and learn how to tap into your inner strength.

JJ Virgin's website: https://jjvirgin.com/

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The Non-Negotiables of Parenting

Sometimes, hearing the worst advice is the best thing that will ever happen to us. For Kelly Scheib, Chief People Officer at Crunchbase, a former employer once told her, “When you’re here, you’re an employee, and when you’re at home, you’re a mother.”

Rightfully ignoring this remark, Kelly set out to create a family-friendly workplace, one that honors the non-negotiables of parenting. As a parent of five and foster mom, she tells us her emotional story of how she built her family in tandem with her career, and inspires women to rewrite their self-limiting beliefs.

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OSIF!

Oh shit, it’s Friday. OSIF?

Just me? Look at this magical photo. Pure freedom…

Do you know how hard it is to get to those 11 minutes??

Weekends are soooo intense – imagine 5 people of different ages, stages, wants, needs, brain development, all trying to hang out?! WTF?! It’s not all magic.

I remember feeling sad to learn that often, weekends are more peaceful when we split up – you take a couple kids, I take a kid, we reconvene for a golf cart ride, babysitter for a few hours here or there, piecing it together in the name of peace.

No matter how much optimization, childcare, move-across-the-country-to-chase-sunshine we create, it still is what it is in this intense phase of life. Living for those small moments of presence, and grounded in our why.

Yesterday, one child was truly in the depths of despair, and the other was in her corner, suggesting box-breathing. How beautiful.

I’m scared every day of the life we’ve built. And therefore alive and growing a little bit every day. They are too.

We grow so they can be better than we. OSIF! ~ @madscaldwell

Finding Freedom Postpartum

Your body is talking to you. And listening to it can help you find peace in postpartum.

In episode 48, we speak with postpartum coach Lizzie Langston who gives us a clear timeline of the postpartum journey, shows us how to clear out trauma and leaves us with some in-the-moment grounding exercises and mantras to live by.

Check out Lizzie's 12-week program for moms here:
Postpartum Freedom: https://www.lizzielangston.com/program. Early bird pricing ends on Mar. 1 2023.

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Ask for what YOU know you deserve, not what they think you’re worth

We’ve heard from a lot of listeners who were inspired by our recent interview, “Stop Devaluing Yourself,” with Veronica Cool. She’s an inspiration for me, as well.

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We are not taught to advocate for ourselves in the same way that boys are taught to advocate for themselves. I’m seeing it with my daughter. We’ll go get our nails done. I’ll sit there and I’ll hate it, and at the end, I’ll say, “this is great.” And my daughter will direct them, “nope, you missed a part here, you need to do this, you need to do that.” At 12.

And part of me is like, “oh my gosh, where did you learn how to do that?” And the other part of me is like, “I just learned from you how to ask for what I want.”

When I would babysit as a teenager, I didn’t know how to ask for compensation for my time. I was taught, “tell them, pay me what you think I deserve.”

I carried that until I met my husband. I remember he was helping me get ready for an annual review. And he asked, “what are you gonna ask for your salary?”

I confidently told him, “well, I always say pay me what you think I’m worth.”

He was in shock, “are you f’ing kidding me? You can’t say that!”

And then I figured out I was making about 30 grand less than some of my male counterparts because I believed my boss would actually pay me what I was worth. Instead, I was a deal.

And while I’m much more aware of my worth now, I am still afflicted by that mindset at times.

May we continue to remind each other and ourselves of our worth. Pay your friends for their services. Budget for any vendor you solicit. And ask for what YOU know you deserve, not what they think you’re worth ❤️. ~Erica

Veronica Cool

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Redefining Ambition

Now this is how to plan for a career pause! In episode 46, we chat with Molly Cunningham, who's strategically taken timeouts from the corporate world to focus on building her life and relationships.

With more than a dozen years of retail and tech experience for big-name brands like Amazon and Target, Molly shows us how to not lose sight of what matters most, or momentum.

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